I was asked this over my voice mail a few days ago and had been meaning to write about it, so here it is and here's my answer: "No, I'm not." (as you well know) But neither am I a homophobe and I have worked with and do have friends who are, so I guess that makes me gay by association in your eyes? This is one example of a small, narrow and shallow mind and I found it so hilarious that I kept it on my computer as an mp3 file. Perhaps (!)a good retort might be, "Are you a redneck?", and maybe the answer to that one might be, "Hell yeah, and I'm proud to be one!" Well, so is that person who is gay and so am I - to be his or her friend. Enough said about that . I only mentioned it here because I found it so humorous. =============================================================================== In other late news, we have a new member of the family. His name is Nikolas (because he joined us around Christmas time) and we call him Nikki for short